HELP, MY PARTNER AND I HAVE DECIDED ON DONOR 3796 WE BOTH THOUGHT THAT HE WAS GREAT HAD AN AWESOME PERSONALITY IN HIS INTERVIEW AND FILE AND THOUGHT THAT HE WOULD DEFINATELY BE THE ONE BUT THEN ONE DAY AS I WAS BROWSING THE QUEST LAB SITE I NOTICED SOME OF THE TEST THAT THEY TEST FOR FOR HIS ETHNIC BACKGROUND AND I ALSO READ THAT THEY CARRY MANY DISEASES THAT KILL AND CAN BE PAINSTAKENLY HARD TO DEAL WITH, AND MOST CHILDREN DON'T LIVE PAST THE AGE OF FOUR. AND AS READ FURTHER IT STATED THAT EVEN THOUGH THE FATHER CAN TEST NEGATIVE FOR THE TRAIT THAT THE CHILD WOULD HAVE TO BE TESTED TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY AREN'T POSITIVE FOR THE GENE. SO OF COURSE I OPTED NOT TO USE THIS DONOR SPERM TELL ME AM I OVERRACTING BY THINK OF MY FUTURE CHILDS WELL BEING???????????? :(